We rely on the greatest minds to guide us through life. They always have the best ideas and advice that change perspectives and bring revolution.
Michail Litvak, a Russian psychologist, psychotherapist, and author, who wrote on practical and popular psychology, has over 30 books and a great number of scientific articles to his credit that have influenced experts throughout the world.
One of his theories called ‘Psychological Aikido‘ on relationships and conflict resolutions talks about how to handle human interactions.
These 22 tips deal with better ways to handle life and relationships:
1. Well-planned activity results in happiness.
2. Unlike mature people, immature people don’t apply the knowledge they have and judge others. Mature folks take charge and get things done.
3. If you start living for yourself, you won’t have to prove yourself to anyone.
4. People aren’t rejected by others. When they fall behind, they feel rejected.
5. Dream about things but ones that are qualified by talent and pragmatism. If you want to be a pop star, with neither the voice nor the stage presence, then you can’t achieve success.
6. Trying to please everybody is the fastest way to fail.
7. Reach out to a good book than an empty person.
8. Someone who has nothing good to say about themselves will always badmouth others.
9. Don’t negate logic based on genders. You are either able or unable to think wisely.
10. If someone calls you ungrateful, then cut all contact and pay off whatever you owe him.
11. As long as you like yourself, others’ opinions don’t matter.
12. You are your biggest enemy. Face yourself to win in life.
13. Dig into knowledge and not others’ backs.
14. Success can make all insults disappear.
15. If you want something, go get it. Don’t wait for permission.
16. Happiness will come to you. Don’t go looking for it. It lies within you.
17. It’s easy to talk to a friend but beneficial to talk to an enemy.
18. Depression makes people re-assess their behavior.
19. If you fail to develop and grow personally, your relationships will definitely fail.
20. Always remember people have a good opinion of themselves while talking.
21. If you work best when you are alone then you are truly spiritually mature.
22. Happiness should be shared with all. Your friends will love it, your enemies will despise it.