The world has become a place where people fear expressing themselves openly. People want to hide, to blend in. Such people get intimidated by strong personalities.
It bothers them how these personalities can be themselves without anything holding them back. Confidence, openness, honesty, and bravery are qualities that strong personalities have, which others crave. So, do you have a strong personality as well?
Check out the following signs to find out:
You choose friends carefully.
You know how untrustworthy some people can be, so you are super careful about the people you let in your life.You might have fewer friends but you’ll have fewer friends who will help in times of need.
You’re not an attention seeker.
People misjudge you to be a person who loves being in the spotlight. But in fact, people are drawn to you because of your charming personality. They want to be around you all the time because they are envious of how open and honest you are.
You don’t require validation.
Some people do things just to get approval from other people. But, that’s not you. As long as you do the things you like doing, you don’t need other’s validation. You gain your motivation from the things you desire in life.
You stay away from ignorant and insensitive people.
Some people don’t think before speaking and blurt out insensitive things; whereas, they must be more careful and thoughtful. Your strong personality is the result of good understanding. If you fail to see that thoughtfulness in others, you avoid them.
Small talk is not your thing.
You fail to understand how chitchat such as celebrity gossip can be useful in any way. It’s a wastage of time, which can be devoted to other subjects worth discussing.
You’re a listener.
It’s funny how people whine about is not being properly heard, but as soon as they find a true listener in you, they get insecure and terrified. Though, there are always those who truly admire your attention.
You can’t tolerate excuses.
You truly believe that if anyone truly sets their mind on some work, nothing can stop them from doing it. So, you can’t stand it when people make random excuses. Instead of whining about what can’t be done, people must focus on what can be done.
You don’t have fears.
Nobody is truly fearless. But what matters more, is how you can overcome them. You know that life has its ups and downs, so you simply put on your armor of bravery and overcome those obstacles.