Most of us find loners baffling because they don’t seem to take any interest in the company of others or anything that involves being part of society. They never bother with the latest fashions and trends which are here one moment and gone the next. However, if you’ve ever attempted to do a thing and then realized that you were just wasting time all along, you’ll know how they feel.
People who choose isolation prefer to do what they love, even if they’re doing it alone because then they are sure that is a well spend time. They are not dependent on others for joy and satisfaction. They have a firm hold on the reins of their lives. But, if you befriend one, you are actually luckier than you know. They can be quite picky about the company they wish to be in but they are also matter-of-fact, practical people who will only help you be better.
For starters, they don’t get distracted by meaningless fluff and chatter. They ensure that even hanging out with friends is time spent productively and positively. This benefits them, as well as all the people who are fortunate enough to spend time with them as even the fun that they have becomes educational.
Strangely enough, these people fall on both ends of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Extroverts who like solitude are actually good at getting through to bigger groups of people whereas their introvert counterparts are better off in smaller parties as too many people tend to make them feel uncomfortable.
But, the one thing they all have in common is that they wish to be around those who are actually intelligent and sincere. They like people who always project their true selves and will help them become happier and more successful. If you are one such person, you can be sure that this friend will help you unlock your full potential.
They are also fiercely loyal people who understand that all relationships – be it friendly, romantic or familial- are important. They are trusting and respectful, and they expect the same in return. It is not easy to get them to like you, and they will turn their back on you the minute you are unfaithful to them. They cannot forgive a betrayal. However, if you prove your worth to them, they will definitely be one of your closest friends, and you can trust them with your life.