Not all relationships last for a lifetime and as mature human beings, we should be completely okay with that fact. It is always better to stay single than to dawdle in a relation which lacks charm, is ugly and grim.
However, sometimes our actions speak louder than our thoughts. Something in our behavior, attitude or actions signals us that maybe the relationship isn’t correct and that it is high time we distance ourselves from such toxicity. No relationship is as sweet and pretty looking like a cotton candy ball. Yes, it is true that breakups aren’t predictable but sometimes the signs are way too evident to not notice at all.
Let us take a look at the top 6 things that doom relationships.
1. There is no communication in your relationship
A relation that lacks essential sharing of ideas is anything but a relationship. If that communication is absent, distance yourself from such a forceful bond. As a couple, if you stay shut within yourselves, it leads to early doom. The strongest relationships have partners that can talk about almost any issue.
2. You have naturally grown apart
Usually, every relationship grows and evolves over time. If your relation walks backward, like suppose you’ve difficulty adjusting to changes in your union, it is a clear sign that things aren’t working correctly between you both.
3. You cannot live up to the bar of expectations that you have set
In the initial stages, you both were very ambitious about this relation. You had seen and desired to live it as if in dreams, however, due to such high expectations, you get easily heartbroken when something happens as you’d imagined. This shows your relation is already on the path of doom.
4. It lacks respect, patience, trust
Any relationship that lacks these vital elements should not be stretched unnecessarily long. If there is no trust, no understanding, no adjustment and patience to cooperate, it means it isn’t working.
5. You cannot express your love any longer
A hollow void seems to have developed in your relationship. You don’t feel like expressing love and affection for each other, all the romantic gestures have vanished. Simple goodnight kisses and complementary hugs have been replaced by your own time chatting in your respective phones. You can no longer connect with your partner. There’s is no feeling of intimacy.
6. You try too hard to bring everything in place
Such relationships are vulnerable and weak. You should not have to hide your flaws and shortcomings from him, you mustn’t lie to him. You shouldn’t be the only one to compromise, understand, solve arguments and love him endlessly.
