As human beings, we are quite daft when realizing that someone is in love with you. We might be masters in the art of flirting or be devotedly in love with someone, but if that same person is secretly in love with you, you have no clue about it.
This doesn’t just affect men; even women are ensnared in this trap. Even though they are considered to be the smarter of the sexes, they sometimes fail to realize when someone is deep into them and loves them will all their heart, and they end up breaking their heart accidentally, by not reciprocating.
Sometimes, they also hesitate to make the first move, as they believe that the guy is not interested, even though he might be head over heels in love with her.
Here are 7 signs that he is secretly in love with you.
1. He Doesn’t Forget
He would never forget anything that you might say, at any point of the day. Even though he might not care two dimes about someone else and their speeches, your stuff is always on his mind, and it’s quite probable that he seldom thinks about anything else.
He might be a big, baddy for the rest of the world, but he is a knight in shining armour for his lady. Even though he might break bones of people all around him, he would always treat you with a care that is surprising in a person like him.
3. There is no ‘I’ in ‘Team’
He would never consider you to be a stranger to him, and would always treat you like his partner. All his discussions about the future will hold both of you together, and he would see you guys together, than he himself.
He is adorable when it comes to his lady love. Charming, loving, and giving, he is extremely affectionate towards you. He would never raise his voice, and before you know it, he would bring you ice cream.
5. Respects You
He values what you think, He respects your opinion, He doesn’t follow the patriarchal bandwagon and tries to belittle you or your opinion just because you are a female. He would not buy a shirt, in the event of you not liking it.
In the world of fierce and independent women, a protective male does seem a bit sexist. But if he loves you, his protection, for the matter, would only extend up to your well being. He trusts you enough to know that you can take care of yourself.
His interest lies beyond sexual gratification. He is genuinely involved in your life, and would willingly be a part of it. He is interested about your family, asks about them, and genuinely takes care of them too.