There are a lot of things that you need in order to make a relationship work. Love is definitely on top of the list but it is not enough to carry the load of the relationship on its shoulders.
Here are some reasons where a woman leaves the man, even though she loves him:
The guy isn’t physically present
Of course, she doesn’t ‘need’ him by her side because she can’t handle life alone. But that’s the thing if you can’t even bother to be there and watch her triumphs and failures and just be present, why would she need you at all. She can very well handle it all on her own till she finds someone who appreciates her and shows it.
There’s nothing exciting in him
We all want comfort yes. But it is also terribly close to becoming stagnant and predictable. Men say women can’t decide and they keep changing their minds, but the truth is men tend to be a lot more boring. So if he doesn’t want to try things out, and does nothing to break the rut, she might very well move on.
He doesn’t support her when she needs him the most
Support is very important for us to go through life. Because no matter how weak or strong an individual might be, there are enough moments in life when they are tested. And in these times the support of our loved ones can mean the difference between life and death. If the man in her life gets a distance while she’s going through a tough time in her life, then what’s the point?
He is unable to make her feel valued
Agreed that for most men sex is about the release and they like to go at it fast and strong. But a man should be thoughtful about the needs of his woman too. Women crave intimacy and want to feel special. She will obviously not be charged with the same wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am routine day in and day out.
He doesn’t pay attention to what she has to say
Any man who thinks he can get away with playing on his phone or something similar, while his woman is telling him about her day and her problems, is not just seriously mistaken. He is also wrong to do so. When she tells you something she expects you to pay attention and not multitask when what she’s saying might be very important to her.
There is no emotional compatibility
If the guy isn’t emotionally mature enough to be with her, sooner or later it will start causing problems in the relationship. And because a woman would care about her emotional well being, even if the guy is incapable of doing so, she will not continue to be with him.
