We’re currently in 2018 and I’m sure the internet is full of blogs that will talk about stereotype mentalities. It’s not actually the bloggers’ fault. It’s just what people are used to hearing. And after all, blogs are written to attract people, sometimes even without authenticity.
What if I told you that not all men cheat and not all girls want your money?
It’s funny how the audience of both the genders just said “RUBBISH!”
But that is the truth. This world is too big for us to paint it with one brush. No person or blog or book can exactly tell you how to understand if your partner is your soulmate.
It’s something you feel from within.
And today we are here to help you feel things with a clearer vision. If you want to know the signs which indicate that your girlfriend is your soulmate, continue reading!
1. Understands the meaning of privacy
She understands the importance of personal space and she doesn’t feel the need to be excessively paranoid about you. She knows that you are an individual and can also have friends to spend time with and she understands when you are unable to include her in all your plans.
Now firstly, let me tell you that trust is not something that people deserve. Rather it is something you earn. And once you’ve earned her trust, she will stand against the world for you, when the time calls for it. She trusts the man that you are and doesn’t need constant reassurances.
3. Believes in your dream
Only the lucky ones find a partner who believes in their partners’ dream. If your girlfriend supports your dream and sticks around with you through your struggles then be sure that she is the one. Only someone who is truly in love with you will have faith in your journey.
4. She is your safe place
Yes. You read it right. You might be protecting her physically but she is the one who brings peace to your rather chaotic mind. She is the home you return to.
5. She is elastic hearted
Now let me explain this, being elastic hearted means someone who adjusts to situations and understands them. If she knows how to switch up from a little princess to a warrior in tough situations just to make things fine, she is the one.
6. She makes you stronger
Someone who allows you to be the real you will make you a stronger person. She allows you to see your flaws in broad daylight and promotes you to be a better person each day.
7. She gels with your close people
She understands the importance of your family and friends in your life. Knowing that they bring happiness to you becomes the main reason for her to love them too.
8. She believes in you
She understands your worth and reminds you of it too.
9. You’ll connect with humor
It’s never a dull moment with her. She understands your jokes and gives them back to you rather than being offended and creating a scene.
10. Twin hobbies
Over time, both of you have started to enjoy doing the same things. That’s what love does. It ties two ends and creates a new string.
11. Communication is the key
As you talk about problems rather than fighting and hiding. This only happens when people are comfortable in speaking to their partners.
12. She accepts your past
She knows where you come from and doesn’t shame you for it. She’s more focused on building a future with you rather than digging the past.