Personal Inspiration

Why Women Leave Men They Love: What Every Man Needs to Know

  • I see opposite of that

  • Good to know this

  • I agree. It goes both ways.

  • It does go both ways yes totally. Question is: if true genuine love is present, why don’t you forgive n work harder on fixing it rather than just walk away? Wondering though

    • Typically women forgive and sacrifice alot in a relationship. However if tthe other doesn’t bother to meet them even a quarter of the way and continue with their behavior then why be engaged in that relationship. Women tolerate many things until our self worth becomes dissolved. Then we give one last effort until we can no longer accept the selfish behavior. We are not doormats.

    • Katie Kathleen thank u for the comment. I only said “if true genuine love is present” that obviously from both sides, love, care, attention, forgiveness, and the desire to fight for the relationship to grow,, alllllllllllllll the above has to be mutual alllllllllll the above is fueld by love….. “Only if love is mutual” as I said :)))))

  • Very good article and yes it goes both ways but I see this so much in female friends that’s married. man don’t take interest, more interest in cars, sports etc. Never explore the wonderful universe called woman.

    • Very true Dev C. Very true

    • Paul

      That’s their fault – they get what they deserve. The guy who wasn’t macho, and into stupid sports, cars, and other “manly” things, was considered a “nice guy” and passed by or called gay. So she went with the jerk instead who is out sitting in a tree waiting to shoot an animal instead of ‘sleeping late’ in bed with her on a Sat morning.

  • You gonna leave me?

  • Camryn Sawyer haha I know because if you did I’d come for you not in like a murderous way haha

  • Love you love bug

  • What when boy is hindu n girl is muslim

  • real men

    What stupid fucking cunt wrote this trash… “earn it day by day”… it’s called loyalty, dedication and gratitude you ignorant ungreatful decadent whore…. learn your place!

  • I’m sorry but that’s a lame excuse. The fact that it’s the man’s fault not the woman’s is actually proof there’s no love because love doesn’t give up. The fact that it’s an excuse is because the woman doesn’t love herself and is whole inside already she can’t love nor feel love because she wants love in her defined way. Why can’t one see that the man may have an issue or be hurting and needs a woman to love him in a way to get him to open up and be able to stop keeping so busy in avoiding his inner pain. She needs to save him and make it so he wants to be home. Many times a man will try or do things in hopes that he will be noticed, or reach out or be present but was not received by the woman as needed and so he shut down. There’s no excuse for one side or another but to get what we want from a partner we must be giving it to them and stop expecting or looking to recieve it in a certain way.
    My ex was always getting mad at me for things I said. No matter how I tried to talk to her in the ways she requested that each time the way was wrong. So it was not how I said it or how much I tried that it wasn’t what she wanted to her at all period. She never cared and it shows because if she did then she would have noticed my effort and how hard I tried over and over. She only saw it her way not trying to see it from mine. It’s not fair to say that I didn’t love or give her the attention because I did. To have put in so much effort that went unseen or noticed over it not being in her defined way destroyed the happy home refuge and made it into a place to not be. I don’t blame her or anything but it’s sad for me to think that people never see or understand the whole story to something before making it into a fault of one or the other.

  • Kay Bella Truth

  • Someone could come sweep me off my feet , right underneath my husband …. As if she doesn’t have a choice !!! Sounds like whoever wrote this article is a special kind of snowflake . This is very one sided . The problem could be the women doesn’t talk about what she wants or expects and expects the man to read their minds . And seriously if she complains that a guy works to much to support her and the kids , she’s not paying attention to him either . No man likes to work all those long hours , they do it because they love their family .

    • Adam Whitmer

      In most cases that I come across, and experiencing this first hand, it is exactly that. Women have every opportunity and option available to them… they just don’t know what they want.

  • Some how a good percentage, it’s always the man who is wrong when there are relationship problems. Couples need to learn to communicate with each other when there are relationship dissatisfaction. Also, why is it in almost all similar article of this nature, there is an underline warning of possible infidelity by the woman if the man doesn’t guess why a woman is unhappy.

  • i see some feminist writing 😀 😀

  • hmmm , so if women are to busy at work , ect , does this also go for why a man might leave a relationship

  • relationships are hard , both are working out , no time to bond properly , life is so short people have to choose to loose something in order to keep something , your job or your relationship , and i know most have no choice , they need the money

  • so very true.

  • Shahin AbolfathiGina Abel

  • She just wants to be with a ‘bad boy’ again and wonder where the good guys are.

  • There is a note at the end of the article that says the gender dynamic can be reversed. It can go both ways. But in my opinion good communication and generally having things in common is important. Plus, What man wants to come home from that job that takes up so much of his time and attention if the woman he’s coming home to is all bent out of shape because he was gone in the first place? It’s just common sense that if you want him (or her) to “want” to be there, make it the most inviting place to be at the end of the day. It takes both to make it or to break it.

  • Katie Burke, thoughts?

    • Sort of agree with below commenter… This is click bait playing on gender stereotypes. The point the counsellor is making is a decent point, but it goes both ways. Not to mention its always incredibly dangerous when you start to make sweeping generalisations- ‘women want this’ ‘men are busy fishing’ F*** off!

  • Katie Stancell-Wroten

  • Nowhere did he say men were at fault for anything. He asked men to spend quality time with their wives and take the time to really listen. It goes both ways.

  • Soooooo true

  • Wow…this is so true. Thanks for having the guts to post it

  • Sometimes you gotta leave vs feeling abandoned.

  • Never thought about it this way but it is true.

  • No women leave men who don’t know how to LOVE!

  • It’s gone the other way for me. I did everything they say a man should do…so ladies, as noted at the end of the article…it goes both ways. Their loss. Oh, look for a knight, not a king. I’m a knight, and one day a Queen may enter my life.

  • You left out a women leaves a man she loves because he CHEATS

  • Interesting…

  • I believe this article is narcissistic!

  • Oh so true.

  • Wow, isn’t that the truth?

  • This is what true love is all about. Just as you feel real passion for something else in your life (I don’t know, music or fishing or social causes, you name it), this same passion is what drives woman crazy.

  • Like it matters.

    • Oh, it matters! If you think it doesn’t, then that’s a problem.

    • No, there’s a problem if you don’t know it and she stays. Typical response, move on, she left

  • Im not going to read this and allow this article to pollute my brain. I dont someone else to tell me how to love

    • How close-minded.

    • Sariah Reeser. If something is going to change something about me that I dont need changing then yes I’m close minded.

  • Its already too late!

  • I can see this being true in many situations but believe me it’s not true in all of them. Sometimes woman also leave good men because they are selfish as well. In a “me” consumerism driven culture there are also people searching for the next best thing because life “revolves around them” and they deserve “to be on a pedestal” this goes for men and women, I’ve stopped dating for years because this mentality disgusts me, and I’m not pouring my heart into someone that enjoys me until the next source of entertainment comes along . . Fuck That! People will say everything in the world to please your ears, but you need to watch who they are through their actions.

  • When you don’t care what do you think might happen in the world ???

    That’s why parents don’t care about giving their children a diet of animal flesh and dairy that takes ten years off their life !!!

    That causes heart attacks cancer and strokes when they could EASILY give them a much healthier diet !!!

    BUT THEY DONT !!!!

    THE PARENTS don’t want to give up their precious meat and dairy that’s the obvious source of unnecessary killing or EVIL as its known and that’s MORE important than their OWN children living LONGER in a peaceful world !!!

    You want less unnecessary KILLING ???


    Real fuckin simple !!!

    That’s why greed is a deadly sin !!!

    And what’s more greedy than eating the flesh of an animal you don’t even need to KILL ????


    That’s why parents don’t care about the OBVIOUS psychological consequences of forcing their OWN highly emotionally complex children to unnecessarily KILL the animals they love by eating them **WHILE** watching the SAME animals the are eating on TV and like a brainless zombie think NOTHING will happen to their child ????

    That’s what greed does turns you into a brain dead zombie you can’t even care for your OWN children !!

    But don’t you swear around my kids !!!

    That’s why they destroy themselves with toxic sugar that kills three times more than smoking EVERY year, every chance they get and grow up and do it with addiction to distract themselves from the torment of eating animals they have NO CHOICE but loving the same as anyone else they love because love is not a fuckin light switch it cannot bend that greedy selfish humans think they can just switch on and off and FORCE their children to do the same and UNNECESSARILY KILL with their teeth animals they love equally and for there to be NO consequences from this unnecessary evil ???? unnecessary killing IS EVIL !!! that’s what the self harm of addiction IS a distraction with pain from the subconscious torment of killing animals they love that’s experienced as pleasure !!!

    And parents don’t CARE as long as they have their lump of animal flesh !!!

    You don’t care you CANT CARE !!!

    You don’t care for the animals you unnecessarily KILL with your teeth you end up in a world full of people who dont CANT care for NOTHING !!!



    You reap what you sow !!!

    Darker and darker it gets !!!

    What will it take ?????

    Let’s see !!!….

  • So why do you not advise them not to leavetheir Husbands ?

  • True, too.

  • Chad

    Why are women always so demanding. They always WANT something. Why? What is the reason?

  • This is so true!!

  • Horse shite

  • excellent and so true

  • Karl Staunton

  • Bollox. No wander marriages are failing because of crap like this. My wife left me for my cousin. Tore the family to pieces, my eldest daughter took it bad and suffers anxiety and depression, her mum don’t give a shit when her daughter says her new boyfriend picked her up by her arm and leg and threw her on her bed, just because she was upset! Fuck I could carry on…..

  • The women say ‘so true’ whilst the men say ‘what rot!’

  • Sad, but so true.

  • Yesennia Herrera

  • Women have been watching too many rom coms.

  • Do you see your wife/ husband..I mean really see them with conscious effort.When you do,you are totally present and he/she will feel connected to you.Practice this several times a day and eventually you will become deliberate in your actions.

  • yup

  • Because they are selfish and can’t possibly love someone as much as themselves because they feel cheated by themselves because they are an emotional mess especially as they age they will only find someone for there survival and possessions

  • Thanks to the Mgtow movement many men already have the knowledge they need to not fall victim to womens way of thought

  • Nice to see this very good advice noted to be applicable to women and men.

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