Love is a complex emotion. There are no hard and fast rules, no guidebook you can follow except your heart. Men have been taught not to be “too emotional” as that quality is typically associated with women. This gender stereotyping has resulted in a larger problem, where men cannot express what they feel and women fail to comprehend their intentions. However, men show their love through actions. After all, action speaks louder than empty words.
Here are some ways men show their love through actions:
1. He Will Make You A Part Of His Family
If your man has introduced you to his family, wants you to spend time with his parents, wishes you to be an integral part of his life – he is very serious about you. He wants everyone to see how blessed he is to have you.
2. He Always Stays In Touch
When you love someone, you want to stay with them, irrespective of the distance. If your man calls you without any apparent need, just to check on you, he is definitely in love.
3. Near, Far, Wherever You Are
Not to sound cheesy but if he really loves you; he’d try to be connected with you all the time. He’d hug unexpectedly, put his arm around you, lie down cuddling; basically, enjoy your company.
4. Compromise Is The Key
A relationship cannot survive without adjustment and compromise, but it should not be one-sided. If he is willing to look beyond his own interests for your sake, he is madly in love.
5. He’ll Be There For You
By this, I don’t mean he’ll follow you around like a puppy. He will be there even if the thing doesn’t interest him, just because it matters to you – be it shopping for a friend’s birthday or buying kitchen appliances. You are his priority.
6. He Listens To You
Men are terrible listeners. If he pays heed to small things like your favorite dish, color or song – he is totally into you. Men only try to remember dates if they are really interested.
7. He Seeks Advice
The “male ego” doesn’t work when someone genuinely considers you to be a partner. He will seek advice, ask your opinion about things, makes you feel valued.
8. He Learns From You
Loving is a process of growing together, discovering and learning new things every day. There are certain things you do and he tends to do the same. He even replicates gestures. These are signs of love.
9. He Will Do Chores For You
A true man believes in equality and will do chores without you having to pester. He knows when you need help and will do anything to keep you happy.
10. Gifts That Matter
He will gift you the one thing you’ve been eyeing at the mall simply because he pays attention and loves you. It doesn’t have to be materialistic; he could take you on a treasure hunt because that’s what you wanted as a kid! This shows he pays attention.
11. He Blushes After You Kiss Him
He smiles and blushes after you kiss because he feels lucky to have you.
