I will try to give a short and sweet answer.
This answer is based on stories and experiences of others. I have just summed it up!!
So first of all you begin to love someone!!(see image below to know the mechanism)
If not readable I am quoting the text below:
have you ever heard a song a couple times and enjoyed it or whatever but then you hear it again and and you think “damn this is the best song i’ve ever heard.” like you already knew it existed but for some reason it really hits you that one time, and you’re like wow i wanna hear it again, so you play it again and you think you’re only gonna play it once more but then you play it again and again and again. you fall in love with the beat. you fall in love with the rhythm. you fall in love with the lyrics and everything about it, you can’t get enough of it. it’s constantly in your head and all you want is that song.
i think that’s what its like to fall in love, you know about that person for a while but one day something about them catches you off guard, then you start talking to them which is like hitting play, and you wanna keep talking to them so you do which is like putting it on repeat then you fall in love with their eyes, you fall in love with their smile. you fall in love with their personality. you fall in love with everything about them, you cant get enough of them, they’re constantly in your head and all you want is that person. i think falling in love is like discovering your favorite song.
But the twist here is:
People are always in a dilemma whether the opposite person loves them or not.
Sometimes you need to give up on people. Not because you don’t care but the reason being they don’t.
So if they don’t love you as much you do or they don’t care, then it is pure one sided love. You can’t force someone to love you.
Problem is that you are the one only suffering. The opposite person won’t as they don’t have that same feelings for you as you do for that person. So better leave it. Forget it.
But you can’t unlove someone.
It is always difficult to unlove. Move on.
Love something. Love your work. Love your hobbies.
Love yourself.
Thanks for reading!!
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