I am a woman who received a divorce after 7 years of marriage. Through these seven years and the result afterward, I understood certain facts which are important to keep a marriage alive.
#1
Look For the Positives- Always try to find the positive aspects of him.
#2
Love Making- It is like a medicine to cure your relation, to heal the damage you made to each other.
#3
Smart Elders- Often our elders give us the advice since they have seen the world for a more long time that we and our friends have.
#4
Space- Sometimes husbands like to not concentrate on their wives but that does not mean they do not care.
#5
Let him be- You cannot alter his habits nor his mind. So better not get into that way and ruin the beautiful grace your marriage has.
#6
Appreciate Him- Like Women, they need this too to get going.
#7
Never Doubt His Choices- Since You are one of them.
#8
Care for his efforts- Those are not always successful efforts but try to make him seem it really worked well.
#9
Accountability- As adults, we must be accountable to each other for actions as well as emotions.
#10
Often treat him with the things he love
#11
Supportive- When the need arises support his actions, give him courage, don’t bring in negativity.
#12
Girl talks with Him a strict no- Men do not enjoy that gossiping so stop as soon as he is near.
#13
Find out his Fantasies- often spice up things with different surprises, ways of love. Not the way you want, but the way they need.
#14
Care for Self- Take care of your beauty, men love that.
#15
Give Your Time- Especially when he is in some trouble.
#16
Never Compare- Talking about other men in front of your husband in order to compare is not allowed.
#17
Give yourself when he needs you- It satisfies their masculine ego and gives them satisfaction.
#18
Don’t Believe In Internet blindly- Most of the time internet advises ruin things.
#19
He is a human too- let him be
#20
Wives expect too- both of them need to work on marriage
#21
No secrets- never keep Amy secrets from him that is quite impossible.
#22
Accept his love- Maybe his way of showing love is different.
#23
No insult in public- never point out his mistakes in front of other people, if needed sort it out when alone.
#24
Try to Match- Match your likes and dislikes, find the common ones and get back to the love business.
#25
Never mix up- We all have a certain picture of our spouse in mind and while matching that with the real one we mix and mess up things.
#26
Money Away from Honey- Don’t ruin what you have with these petty issues.
#27
Accept the Background- They may have a past and so may you, never let that create a barrier and sort things with talk.
#28
Let go- Yes, the mistakes need to be pushed away to make life simple.
#29
Not always sex- Sometimes even holding hands can work wonders.
#30
Prioritize Love- It’s the most important thing above all.
