What a woman wants is seldom understood by a man. Needless to say, that does create some friction in the bedroom, where everything needs to fall into place. One wrong move and the entire atmosphere would come crashing down.
Who’s to say that it won’t end all your desires of sexual gratification? But, worry not.
Women have been telling men what to do for centuries, and it’s time we pull the cotton out of our ears and listen to them.
Here are 20 things women want you to do while making love to them! You’re welcome!
1. Cup her cheeks while kissing.
This is the first step to the heaven that is an orgasm. Rubbing your fingers across her cheek while you are kissing, makes it more than just sexual lust, and brings forth the love, the emotional connection you both share.
2. Use your mouth, and not just your lips.
Drag the tip of your tongue down her throat, and lick her lips. You would instantly get a moan of appreciation.
3. Nibble on her lips, enough for her to gasp, but not enough for her to scream, with her lips bleeding.
There is always an optimum amount, and you have to hit that.
4. Mix it up.
Grabbing her hair and tilting it back while kissing, and scratching her neck can go a long way to complete arouse her, only if you remember the age old quote ‘too much of everything is bad’.
5. Use your fingers.
Women notice hands and fingers more than men, and a heavy hand might spell disaster. It should be light, fluttering, giving her goose bumps where your fingers touch the skin.
6. Don’t be an ass, grab it!
For this is where the gloves come off. This is dangerous territory, so make sure the woman is completely at ease with your fingers there, otherwise the next time you see her; it would be in a courtroom.
Slap her butt gently, for a loud smack causes a lot of noise and can turn her angry instead of aroused, and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
8. You have to be all ears for this!
Women love their ears sucked on, nibbled, licks, nuzzled, and gently blown on. It could get a bit ticklish, but the rewards, are long-lasting.
9. Take Control.
Dream Theatre’s hit ‘Pull Me Under’ is apt as women love being dominated by men during sex, most of the time. The rest of the times, be gracious enough to let her have control, but for the most part, they want you to take control.
10. Ask. Always!
Know thy lover, and to know, you have to ask. Ask her what she wants, ask her if she likes what you’re doing, and if possible, make it tantalizing. Else, just ask!
In conclusion, all a man can do to ensure both the woman and he are having a good time is to be gentle, and then rough. But, keep in mind that it happens with her consent.