There are certain things that people tend to do when they fall in love -mainly due to insecurity and a tendency to put the other person’s wishes over their own. For this reason, this is a list of things a strong woman would avoid, and it is good to keep it in mind, when you are head over heels for someone and tend to… lose it!
1. Change the way you look or you dress.
If the person you fell for is worthy of this love, they would’t make you change your appearance. A person should be with you for other reasons that your style, hair or weight. If you change something, do it because you want it.
2. Abandon your passions.
Your goals should be unaffected by the relationships you are having. You never know what kind of lost opportunity you will regret in the future, because it seemed like a good idea to pass it on at the time. Your partner is there to support your dreams, and find a common way to live them together.
You make the rules of your life, and you don’t need instructions from anyone else. You may want to ask for advice from the person you trust, but don’t make the mistake of confusing advice for a constant need of validation. No one knows better than you what is best for your life!
4. Give up the plans you already set.
Your family, friends and social circle cannot be on the sideline only for the times that your partner is unavailable to be with you. It is one thing to reschedule for an important reason, and another to drop everything you do in order to be with him all the time. If he is understanding, he will know that sometimes he won’t be able to catch you, and won’t expect you to be constantly on standby.
5. Let him change you.
You are the only person you deserve to change for. Know yourself, who you are, and be sure that your partner should like you for what you are, and not for what he wanted to find.