Personal Inspiration

Heartbreaking Facebook Post By A Man Who Has Just Found Out His Wife’s Been Cheating For 10 Years

  • Wow. I couldn’t even imagine

  • You are a man that-instead of getting angry,defensive,self righteous-oh and blaming-sat down and did some introspection.I hope you don’t take all the blame.You were steady and focussed-two things our society holds in high esteem.And faithful/loyal-another two.A diligent,hard working father-and husband-that’s another two.Your descriptive and eloquent diatribe-although self-effacing-is powerful-and moving.Please ‘friend me’!

  • We all live a different life. The important thing is to strike a balance. You cannot control other people’s behavior you can only control yourself. Being a good provider to your family is a noble thing. The danger here is people start thinking oh i have to live my life and not save and then end up getting broke.

  • This is why I’m not going to be in a relationship

  • Unfortunately, in this world there is no such thing as FREE money.
    He’s beating himself up when he had no alternative. If there was a money tree in his garden -then he’d have had access to those choices.
    Life’s not all fun and games.

  • This is messed up. People would calling for his head if the roles had been reversed and she had worked that hard and he had been screwing around for 10 years. Maybe she should have made a point to tell him that she was more interested in time with him than him making money. Providing for your family isn’t a reason to have your spouse whore around. Maybe if she would have gotten a job to help with money instead of going out for dick, he could have gotten a job that paid less and allowed for more family time.

  • Mohammed

    I’m 39 years old and in the same boat. My wife who I loved very much cheated on me and I was too busy with work and trying to get financial security.

  • there are some people that should read this

  • you have lived to work.happier people work to live.just making enough to live and enjoy your life, financial security is not everything. your wife should have been honest, not just used your hard earned cash to fund a life with her lover whilst you put in the hours.

  • Life is not over at 46. Regret is an albatross around your neck, Get over yourself and make a better life. This is a chance for you to make a different life. and quit wasting your time with lamintation on FB. Make peace w your past, and look forward to your future.

  • Baabaa Saayen Khanzada Shakir

  • a banker that has worked 9-7 6 days a week for 26 years.. yeah you did something horribly wrong. retire in 4 years and enjoy the rest of your life

  • I pray that God will provide what you need

  • Monique Richards

  • Steven Dijkstra do not settle in ur 20’s hahahha yolo !!!

  • That is very sad, but he is not old. I have never given up my energy and passion, well, okay, here and there but I always stood up and screamed in my mind “wait, what the fuck?!” And restored myself. I have relocated a few times. I have changed jobs. I have loved and I have hated. I have also laughed many times to the point I cannot breathe lol. The problem seems to be that we are taught to conform to SOMEONES idea of “right”. We are taught to always try and remain so perfectly calm. I am forever reminded of the tale of 2 wolves as was told by my grandmother. The thing to remember is that you keep BOTH wolves. My advice to myself is that it is okay to FEEL and to express those feelings. With that, you also have to allow others the same. i feel like the man in this story is about to bust out and scream “wait what the fuck?!”. That is always a good thing.

  • I am happy to report that I have been having an adventurous and expansive life!

  • Alvin Tanthio

  • Nehal Gupta have a read

  • Dylan Bernoth

  • He still has the time to change. Many people find out when it is too late

  • What bank is open from 9-7 6 days a week? I call bs

    • Michael O

      Do you Know what an investment bank is? Investment bankers have to work long hours and over the weekend.

  • Takes balls to not only open up in this manner, but to also post it on social media. Kudos to this dude. Hope everything works out for the best.

  • Sad story mate I feel for you . I would love you to have a browse of JW .org ( official website ) can only cheer you up

  • Did he say he was now 46???? Thats only half way!!!!!!! Someone needs to tell hom he still young….to go out and fulfill his dreams….to finish that novel. Travel the world…make amends with his son… new friends…make passionate love….and say good riddens to his ex….all is not lost!!! Its just beginning!!!!

  • Fuck, i haven’t cried for years. As i read this sad story I slowly started to cry cant even hold of myself. This a very sad and yet very inspirational story. As i grow older and older i would remember this story and maybe it would change my life drastically. To whoever wrote this,i very am so sorry for what happened but i want you to know that the story you written on facebook will change lives forever. Once again i am very sorry for what happened and thank you. You change my life in an instant.

  • Very sad…

  • Haroune Ambati

    The path you chose to let the world know ur story is a seed of your future self that you are gonna be my friend, its never too late to reach out for what is worthy, peace unto you

  • Poor bastard.

  • The poor guy…

  • What did he honestly expect would happen?

  • It’s his fault the wife cheated on him? He shove a guy in her?

  • João Victor

  • Thank you for sharing, best wishes for the rest of your life!!

  • It’s never to late to begin again…

  • Truth to all you youngsters. Get it while you can. Do not settle for less than anything you want.

  • yes and when you get to be in your 60,s you look back and realize all rhe wasted years and its to lste!!!!!

  • A 9-7 6 day a week job in a bank and he thinks he’s picked the safe path in life .. If money was everything , yaaaa but it’s not . The only thing safe about that is he’s less likely to get hit by a car .

  • Thanks man, kinda an important reminder to not being in the safe zone for such a long time. But people change eventually though.

  • Alex Cholewinski actually read the post fam

  • Shannon Granger

  • The reason he chose the safe route was because of better judgement. How would he feel if he ignored this better judgement and fell flat on his face. He would live with regret.


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